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Resentment: The Bitter Fruit of People Pleasing

Updated: Nov 13


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Are you caught in the cycle of people pleasing, wondering why it often leads to resentment? You're not alone. In the latest episode of the Hey Sis podcast, Dr. Dee Evans delves into the complex web of people pleasing, exploring its roots, consequences, and how to break free. People pleasing is often misconstrued as a noble trait, but as Dr. Evans explains, it can be a form of control and a way to avoid conflict. The desire to please others can stem from a need to boost self-esteem or manipulate situations, leading to a lack of clarity in our actions and relationships. This lack of clarity often results in resentment, as we give without articulating our true motives or needs. Dr. Evans shares personal anecdotes and insights, highlighting how people pleasing can lead to a loss of identity. By constantly editing ourselves to fit a mold that pleases others, we risk forgetting who we truly are. This can manifest in relationships that feel one-sided, leaving us exhausted and unfulfilled. The episode is a call to action for those struggling with people pleasing. Dr. Evans emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and communicating our needs clearly. She encourages listeners to seek therapy and develop self-love, understanding that it's not another person's responsibility to read our minds. If you're ready to break free from the chains of people pleasing and embrace a life of authenticity and self-love, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to hear Dr. Evans' powerful insights and start your journey towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships.




 

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